My apologies for slacking on the blogging. Ten months here has turned the extraordinary into the ordinary and I doubt anyone wants to read about my dog loving, spinach eating, Glee obsessed life. With that said, the last few months have passed without much incident. It got cold, really cold. Frodo, aka Mung Mung, spent some time in a cone looking like a confused baby seal. Aaron and I continue to thrive in our shoebox apartment, eating well, working out, and becoming true "adults". A crazy night for me these days consists of two glasses of moscato and a Glee sing-a-long.
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Frodo aka Mung Mung |
Our Hollywood Kids performed Cinderella for their parents and Aaron and I gushed over their perfectly executed lines and adorable costumes. Here are some pictures of the derps.
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Luna, Sarah, Ruby |
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Ben, Jack, Dan, Colin |
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Chris |
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My favorite, Kate |
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Hollywood Kids |
We were lucky enough to be invited to a Korean wedding this past weekend, and the experience still managed to wow me ten months into this kimchi eating life. My co-teacher, Sarah's, brother (whom we had never met prior to this) was the groom and Sarah thought it imperative that we observe a Korean style wedding. The first thing you must know is these weddings occur in special wedding halls located all over town. It is like a factory production, weddings move through the halls every hour with demanding guests pouring into the waiting room as the previous wedding is still in progress. Upon entering the hall, Aaron and I became an immediate spectacle (as usual): "behold the white people." We nervously twittered around searching the sea of similar faces for the one single person we knew. Finally Sarah appeared and ushered us into a sauna-like room with the bride as a centerpiece. Acres of lace and frills cascaded over a velvet bench as crystal chandeliers offered explosions of rainbows with each flash of the camera. Aaron and I awkwardly arranged ourselves around the beautiful bride (who had no clue who we were) and forced grimace like smiles with many curious eyes questioning our invitations.
After our impromptu photo shoot we were thankfully ushed into chairs in the wedding hall. A slate velvet runner covered a raised walkway leading to the pulpit. Garish fake white rose, sparkling in what I assume was meant to be a "winterwonderland touch" lined the marital path. The ceremony began unobtrusively with a large percent of the congregation still murmuring amongst themselves. This droning did not cease once during the ordeal. The mothers of the bride and groom lead the procession. Clad in hanbok (traditional Korean outfits) they passed under crossed swords (seriously) and each lit a candle to symbolize the joining of the families. The groom followed suite in a white tux complete with lace white gloves, an outfit spectacular enough to make Michael Jackson sigh with envy from his grave (too soon?). Next came the bride. Her mountainous dress came with its own personal assistant who skittered behind the bride, making adjustments to the river of cloth as necessary.
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Bad lighting, cool experience. |
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THE SWORDS! |
At this point I am afraid I don't have much to say as the next 30 minutes were conducted in Korean. I did notice the impersonal feel as friends and family, dressed in blue jeans and hoodies, continued to talk through it all. There were some prayers and some vows and a cake was wheeled onto the stage to be sliced with a sword (seriously, I don't get the swords). The best man entered dressed as Psy and danced to Party Rocker, further confusing me. I have to admit that I get choked up during all weddings (including the ones I watch on TV) and my moment came at the end of the ceremony when the newly married couple bowed to each set of parents respectively; they went first to their knees and then to kiss their parents' feet. My mom is getting ideas for my future.
Without much warning the bride and groom walked down the velvet runner and were showered in snakes of confetti and fake snow. The wedding guests for the 12:00 wedding were already pushing their way in through the doors and we followed the rush to the reception. Due to the mass production of weddings, the reception hall was a communal buffet complete with far too much good Korean food. Four plates of salmon, sushi, mandoo, noodles, fried pork, rice cakes, etc. later Aaron and I rolled ourselves home.
As for the rest of my life, it goes like this. Today is Christmas and I am sipping gingerbread tea, listening to City and Colour while my man is in the kitchen making chicken burritos for us. Last night was spent amongst best friends in a love nest known as Damyang. Katie, Danielle, Pete, Aaron, Frodo, and I snacked on falafel, pumpkin soup, hummus, salad, and chocolate until we couldn't move. We then piled ourselves into the love nest on the floor complete with heating pads and a plethora of blankets and pillows. A ridiculous photo shoot (hey, this is Korea after all) and Home Alone 2 followed. Maybe there was no ham or Christmas pudding, maybe it was my first Christmas away from my family, maybe it was blessedly random, but mostly it was a Christmas to remember.
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Merry Christmas! |
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Christmas crackers |
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Love nest |